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What do you do after a breakup?

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19.07.2019
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Lena7
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Reasonopia
26.06.2020 15:28:59
Lena7

At first I’m depressed so I cry and lay in my bed for a few days. I can’t eat, can’t sleep, I’m just thinking about memories and how fucked up people are. But after some time I start to work on myself, mentally and physically... I don’t like relationships because it cause me a lot of pain I can’t get rid of anytime soon ;l

26.06.2020 15:28:59
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CinnamonSugar
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Freethinkerland
13.09.2020 23:50:23
CinnamonSugar

Depends. 

There are some people I kept the contact info for. Maybe not saved in my phone but in a paper phone book. Back in the day, I had a contact book with a denim cover. I definitely didn't block anyone back then. Pretty sure it cost money to ask the phone company to block a #. (We didn't have caller ID, then, either, so there was no way to tell if an ex was calling.)

Nowadays,  with all this tech, social media & other sites, you may want to unfriend your ex and/or block. Depending on the site, there are also options like "mute" & "ignore" which are different than a true block. Any of them can help put space between them & you.

I also like to write out why the person wasn't right for me. I may have to do this multiple times. It can be a good reminder when I think about the good times & want to try again. 

I don't like rebound (romantic) relationships but I do think being social (platonically) is helpful. After one breakup,  I started going back to a coffee hour at a church, even though I'm not religious. I joined a hiking club after a breakup,  etc. 



13.09.2020 23:50:23
“If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.” ~Stephen Fry
Living with depression? Connect with others at the Mental Health Check-in.
Miss_Mercury
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Agnostica
14.09.2020 10:21:33
Miss_Mercury

I am super depressed for a few days... but I get up and keep going. I tend to stay in relationships longer than I should for fear of having to feel that pain. 

14.09.2020 10:21:33
      
mrburns_untumblrised
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Atheista
14.09.2020 14:02:58
mrburns_untumblrised

try to spend time with close friends and reconnect to people who i may have neglected in favour of the relationship, write in my journal, spend time in nature, listen to sad albums and do some crying, hold onto the memories for an unhealthily long time and be in a lot of pain about how all those happy memories feel tainted now, change something about my appearance (to try and make a concrete 'next step' written on my body in some way)

14.09.2020 14:02:58
have you drunk enough water today?



pour yourself a glass right now

Gothava
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Atheista
14.09.2020 17:28:58
Gothava

i super agree with the above comment, very similar methods. wanna especially put emphasis on reconnecting with people you may have neglected in favor of the relationship that just ended. its super important to remember youre not alone, esp after most of your reassurance of that is gone

14.09.2020 17:28:58
#plsmeat
 
stargirl25
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Atheista
16.09.2020 08:47:50
stargirl25

I just cry a lot and put some sad music to feel more miserable. I stop eating and then I realize that it's not the end of the world so I start working on myself. 

16.09.2020 08:47:50
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SpermLover
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Agnostica
16.09.2020 09:18:53
SpermLover

Sleep with others.
as the saying goes, ” the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else”


16.09.2020 09:18:53
CinnamonSugar
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Freethinkerland
17.09.2020 17:58:02
CinnamonSugar

Isn't it something how, even if the person lied to us, cheated on us, or otherwise hurt us, there is often still something that draws us back to them?

17.09.2020 17:58:02
“If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.” ~Stephen Fry
Living with depression? Connect with others at the Mental Health Check-in.
Lindsexy
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Reasonopia
04.12.2020 14:03:38
Lindsexy

Cry

04.12.2020 14:03:38
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gabou777
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Secville
11.01.2021 16:59:22
gabou777

i go fuck their best friend

11.01.2021 16:59:22
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