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What do you do after a breakup?

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Channing
Channing
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Channing
19.07.2019 04:15:02
Channing
Hi everyone!
I recently got out of a really toxic relationship and I want to make sure I don't go back. Does anyone have any post breakup tips?

Thanks!

19.07.2019 04:15:02

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Esuna
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Reasonopia
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19.07.2019 04:35:54
Esuna
Therapy, and a positive support system. There is strength in numbers.

I remember when I was so embarrassed being in a toxic/abusive relationship I tried to hide the things wrong out of shame. Now everyone knows, and it seems so trivial that I hid everything from those closet to me. If I would have confided earlier to my family, I probably would have been able to suffer less and be able to be strong enough to leave the toxicity.

19.07.2019 04:35:54
 Very busy with school at the moment, so temporary hiatus D:.
Channing
Channing
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Channing
19.07.2019 04:38:26
Channing
Thank you for that Esuna. In hindsight, I wish I had paid attention to the signs sooner. Even though I tried to hide things, now that it's over, everyone seems to have known all along. 

19.07.2019 04:38:26

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Sandi Lut
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Sandi Lut
19.07.2019 09:57:51
Sandi Lut
When I got out of the toxic relationship I had the one thing that helped not to go back was accepting that it happened and not to blame myself. Confiding in others like your close ones does help. It's no use asking yourself why you didn't see the signs or why you stayed in the relationship. That will not help get over the break up. Acceptance is the first but very important step to start getting over the relationship.
Good luck Channing :)

19.07.2019 09:57:51
Happiness is inside yourself

Channing
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Channing
19.07.2019 14:39:50
Channing
Thanks Sandi!

19.07.2019 14:39:50

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Chassi
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Chassi
22.08.2019 13:17:16
Chassi
I delete the number. Remove any social connection so I don't have to talk to them again. 

I would follow what Esuna and Sandi Lut said. Their suggestions are positive..

22.08.2019 13:17:16
Anabelle.666
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Anabelle.666
22.08.2019 13:54:03
Anabelle.666
Channing wrote:
Hi everyone!
I recently got out of a really toxic relationship and I want to make sure I don't go back. Does anyone have any post breakup tips?

Thanks!
Hi! I went trugh few toxic relationship. You should think about reasons why you two broke up and realize you are lucky. It would be worse for you to stay with someone who don't make you happy for some reasons. Go out, put your make up on and enjoy in freedom hun. 
P.S. Make sure he knows what he lost.  <3


22.08.2019 13:54:03
In a world full of Kardasnians, be a Morticia Addams.
galaxykitty
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galaxykitty
22.08.2019 22:03:47
galaxykitty
getting out of a toxic relationship takes a lot out of a person so i think like someone suggested cut ties and focus on yourself and focus on what brings you happiness 

22.08.2019 22:03:47
Channing
Channing
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Channing
23.08.2019 11:44:47
Channing
Thanks for this advice Chassi!

Chassi wrote:
I delete the number. Remove any social connection so I don't have to talk to them again. 

I would follow what Esuna and Sandi Lut said. Their suggestions are positive..


23.08.2019 11:44:47

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Miss Jai
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Atheista
Miss Jai
04.04.2020 17:49:11
Miss Jai
Work on yourself set some new goals!

04.04.2020 17:49:11

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