"Someone who is now a good friend of mine, who was just an acquaintance at the time. It just felt really right with him. We were sleeping together for about a month which was nice. We'd have deep chats and cuddles afterwards. It faded out, and we were both ok with that. It made us better friends, and we laugh about the fact we've had sex but haven't done it again/don't intend to go back there."
...he and I are just really good friends now. I saw him this weekend, actually. Weirdly enough, we were talking about sex and I ended up learning some quite shocking things about him which I never knew before. I know it was ages ago since I was sleeping with this guy, but what he told me the other day actually made me feel kind of shitty about myself. Firstly, he's slept with 26 different women. This initially made me feel a little cheap, before realising it didn't bother me at all and jokingly giving him the nickname "26". He got me right back by calling me "6", which is apparently my number in that list. Kind of gross, but what can I really do except laugh it off?
Secondly, he and I were talking about this time we hooked up at a house party and ended up sneaking off upstairs. I told him I still felt really guilty that we'd basically had a drunken quickie on someone's bed. It was a girl I didn't know too well, who evidently he knows better than I did. He told me that she was number 15 of his 26, and at the time I just laughed and told him he was an absolutely terrible person for it.
I do feel kind of dirty now though :(
