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Roman
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Freethinkerland
29.07.2015 21:20:08
Roman

I actually was hoping we could have an open discussion about sex and about the different opinions that surround it. If you'd like to share your view on sex, or some experiences, they're welcome. Sex is such a controversial topic that maybe it'd be nice to explore those opinions in a safe place.

29.07.2015 21:20:08
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29.07.2015 21:49:56
Remi

I have mixed views on sex.. I'm gray-asexual so I'm generally not sexually attracted to most people unless I'm very close to them (I mean best friend level stuff) I'm also mildly sex repulsed mostly due to my phobia of body fluids (except blood, p chill with blood) and the fact I was sexually assaulted. The only person I've ever had sex with was terrible in bed anyway. But that aside I'm still in this hopeful state that maybe I'll have a good sex life someday? I mean I doubt it but I'm hopeful! But finding someone who is a girl (or dfab) has similar kinks and sexual tastes, checks all my emotional bonding boxes, is basically my best friend, is ascetically pleasing, finds me attractive, not transphobic and would date a trans guy AND me being romantically and sexually attracted to her? It feels unlikely. Don't even get me started on men, my requirements list is even longer! I'm Pan btw!

29.07.2015 21:49:56
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Antitheocra
29.07.2015 23:20:28
Mandi

im not sure of my sexuality, i know i check out guys and girls but im not sure if its sexual attraction or if its just aesthetic attraction. i think im only sexually attracted to people im in love with, but im not entirely sure, so i dont feel comfortable saying i identify with any sexuality. i might be demisexual and pansexual (demipansexual?) if anything. 
ive been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years now, we havent had sex because id rather wait until i move out (im only 18) but i know its something id like to do.
as for my opinion on sex, i have no problem with what anyone does with their body as long as its all consensual, and safe for everyone involved. has anyone heard of LaciGreen? she does informational videos on youtube about sex and gender, i found her pretty helpful in my teens when i had tons of questions that i couldnt ask my parents. 
when i first started going through puberty i was so uncomfortable with my breasts. i felt they were gigantic, and as they grew i got so much more uncomfortable with them!! it really didnt help that i was teased by my mom and some of my friends about them :/ it also didnt help that nobody gave me the sex talk! i think if my mom had explained to me that what was happening to me was normal i wouldve been alot more ok with my body. but im not mad at her, she was probably uncomfortable about the whole thing too. anyways, eventually i made my peace with my breasts, it helped when i finally got some better bras but it seemed like as soon as i thought i was one size, or thought that i found a bra that fit, they got bigger again. i only really started wearing bras that are the right size in the last 2 ish years. i really prefer sports bras because i have either a d cup or double d, so finding wired bras that keep them from bouncing around is really hard for me. at least from my experience ive had better luck finding good sports bras than wired ones.

29.07.2015 23:20:28
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29.07.2015 23:44:20
Remi

Mandi wrote:
im not sure of my sexuality, i know i check out guys and girls but im not sure if its sexual attraction or if its just aesthetic attraction. i think im only sexually attracted to people im in love with, but im not entirely sure, so i dont feel comfortable saying i identify with any sexuality. i might be demisexual and pansexual (demipansexual?) if anything. 
ive been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years now, we havent had sex because id rather wait until i move out (im only 18) but i know its something id like to do.
as for my opinion on sex, i have no problem with what anyone does with their body as long as its all consensual, and safe for everyone involved. has anyone heard of LaciGreen? she does informational videos on youtube about sex and gender, i found her pretty helpful in my teens when i had tons of questions that i couldnt ask my parents. 
when i first started going through puberty i was so uncomfortable with my breasts. i felt they were gigantic, and as they grew i got so much more uncomfortable with them!! it really didnt help that i was teased by my mom and some of my friends about them :/ it also didnt help that nobody gave me the sex talk! i think if my mom had explained to me that what was happening to me was normal i wouldve been alot more ok with my body. but im not mad at her, she was probably uncomfortable about the whole thing too. anyways, eventually i made my peace with my breasts, it helped when i finally got some better bras but it seemed like as soon as i thought i was one size, or thought that i found a bra that fit, they got bigger again. i only really started wearing bras that are the right size in the last 2 ish years. i really prefer sports bras because i have either a d cup or double d, so finding wired bras that keep them from bouncing around is really hard for me. at least from my experience ive had better luck finding good sports bras than wired ones.
I had the same problem with bras! I'd suggest doing a diy measure to find a bra that fits perfectly? It really helped me out as nearly every measurements i had done professionally was alllways off. But remember pretty much every brand has slightly different sizes even though they're the same 'size' so its hard to get one just right, especially underwire ones. I too am a fan of sports bras, much more comfortable.

Personally I cant wait till I can afford top surgery, bras are a nightmare, i'd rather not need one xD

29.07.2015 23:44:20
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Antitheocra
30.07.2015 00:46:07
Mandi

Remi wrote:

I had the same problem with bras! I'd suggest doing a diy measure to find a bra that fits perfectly? It really helped me out as nearly every measurements i had done professionally was alllways off. But remember pretty much every brand has slightly different sizes even though they're the same 'size' so its hard to get one just right, especially underwire ones. I too am a fan of sports bras, much more comfortable.

Personally I cant wait till I can afford top surgery, bras are a nightmare, i'd rather not need one xD
ive thought of measuring myself but now ive kind of figured out which sports bras will fit me and which wont based on how big they look, and their stretchyness/nonstretchyness. i think im getting the hang of it at least lol its always bothered me how much the same 'size' of bra can be much smaller or larger depending on brand. a few times ive found 'XL' sports bras that look more like size small its a bit ridiculous XD i agree, bras are a nightmare! good luck with getting top surgery btw :) 

30.07.2015 00:46:07
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BambiDoll
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Atheista
30.07.2015 03:05:00
BambiDoll

I've had seven different sexual partners, but only had proper full on intercourse with three of those guys. I've been called names such as "tease" in the past because of this and also accused of thinking I was "too good for anyone" because I've changed my mind half way through. It's pretty fucked up if someone thinks I'm in the wrong for getting into bed with someone and suddenly realising I'm no longer comfortable with continuing.


4 guys I DIDN'T go all the way with:

1) The first guy this happened with my first ever boyfriend, and we did other sexual stuff - I just couldn't/didn't want to lose my virginity at the time. 

2) Another guy it happened with was too forceful in his attempts to sleep with me. He had drug problems that affected his "performance", so we never actually had proper sex. I ended up hating him for his aggressive attitude and he ended up hating me for emasculating him by not putting out...

3) A friend who I had a drunken fumble with. When he put it in me, we were both like "Nope. This isn't right" and never spoke of it again. 

4) This one was two years younger, and I liked him but he had self-esteem issues that were somehow my fault. He got frustrated with me one time when I didn't want sex, and also another separate time when I did, because he got the impression he wouldn't be capable of pleasing me. It was kind of slut-shaming, because he had this impression that I'd "clearly had great sex with loads of guys" and became angry at himself/me about that (even though it wasn't the case).


3 guys I DID go all the way with:

1) My second boyfriend. Lost my virginity to this one, and it wasn't a great experience. I don't have a romanticized view of losing my virginity because of how painful, awkward and uncomfortable it was. He and I were together for two years. He was both mentally and emotionally abusive to me, which often resulted in some quite unenjoyable sex at times.

2) Someone who is now a good friend of mine, who was just an acquaintance at the time. It just felt really right with him. We were sleeping together for about a month which was nice. We'd have deep chats and cuddles afterwards. It faded out, and we were both ok with that. It made us better friends, and we laugh about the fact we've had sex but haven't done it again/don't intend to go back there.

3) This guy I've been seeing. He's wonderful, and it feels really good with him.

30.07.2015 03:05:00
HeavenLeighBimbo
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Freethinkerland
30.07.2015 06:18:09
HeavenLeighBimbo

Bambi just wrote what I would call a perfect real life experience.  If I was to detail my life like that it would take pages on the forum.    I think I never had a chance. To be NORMAL,
 
I saw this thread early this morning, and I wasn't to sure how to write anything about my sexual life.    There is so many things that I cannot really write because of my life being a 'Kept-girl'.   How can someone really describe how a life of sexuality began at the age of 3, and that was when I first became aware of sex.
  I was rescued from the sex trade.   I was sent to a good religious family, that I call my mother, and father that raised me with some values that I hold very dear.  That didn't mean that I didn't have some problems along the way.    I've always been very slutty. As a child I would strip off my clothes and run around naked, if my mother wasn't close enough to catch me. 
 Yes, this is AGE  4 
  I'm not sure I could even begin to detail my life between age 4 and 16.  Because I was thrown into a religious family that taught pure abstinence.
   Nudity was EVIL, yet my father still took advantage of me with pictures.  I grew to hate him, but what could I do?  I ran away from home, at 16 in favor of escape from my own accidental beauty.  My mother understood my actions and helped me with money and she knew where I was, so all was good.  I still lived close by, and she knew the home where another set of good parents raised me.  I loved that second set of parents too.  They taught me the arts of WEALTH.
     My sexual life only began when I had sex for the first time by my own choice at the age of 16.  My high school sweet-heart.  We never even had protected sex, because I wanted to get pregnant.  I had been working with children already in a pre-school, and wanted nothing more than to have a baby myself at that point.  It never happened, even though my boyfriend and I had sex every day for 2 years. I've never used birth control methods, 'ever'.    I began to be worried I may have been damaged.  So much time passed, and I thought I would never be able to have a baby.  I went to collage, and met my husband.  No baby.... I resigned myself to being childless, and only married him because he LOVED me. Till one month after the wedding did I miss my first period.
    Welcome to the World, my Dear son Jesse.
  It gave me chills to write that !!!!!! 
    God, or what ever,     made my life complete at that moment. 
  I really don't see sex as common, as most people do.
       Sex for me was a path to life, and not something to play with as a toy.

 My husband was very kind to me, because he knew I liked to only be around women.  It may have been imprinted on my mind, because they never hurt me as a child.  He knew I could relax sexually with them, so my bi-sexuality didn't bother him  at all.  He was such a beautiful man.  I really had a difficult time understanding my own sexuality till I met him.  He showed me that men don't want to hurt you.  He showed me how much he loved me for who I was.
 HIS WIFE with a very flawed past.

  How my husband discover that I enjoyed sleeping with other women, actually began in a funny way.    A dorm room, while he was in a closet, during a room check.      I fell completely in love with him that day.  My room-mates and I totally put on a show, and he kept his mouth shut up in my closet and came out wearing my panties on his head, like a total idiot.    It was sort of cute, even if it was childish,  but what else could he do for an half an hour hiding in a BOX...
 I thought it was inventive.  His mouth and nose were covered, and not much else.    Perfect for a plague in a religious collage, sniffing my clean panties.  :D  The three of us 'Rolled him' and battered his ass for getting away with the perfect dorm-room scandal.  His parts were only mine !!!!!! We ate him alive, and tickled him to his peak.  I adored my room mates and didn't mind sharing the prize.

  So that is Me age 0 to 19.  I'm sorry if offends some of you that I survived to become a mother by having sex when the time was right.
  Dare to see what happens 19- 21?

30.07.2015 06:18:09
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Bebe92583
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Antitheocra
30.07.2015 09:08:21
Bebe92583

Sex for me is a really difficult area to talk about because my early sex life was not of my choosing. I was a victim of sexual molestation during most of my childhood.between 18/19 sex was a way for me to escape an abusive situation.. fortunately I did not get pregnant until I went to a party and had a one night stand with a drop dead gorgeous MLB Pitcher...... we both were bored and started messing around with each other at the party as we had met before and were acquaintances. problem is we discovered too late we really did not like each other all that well.but to the good we did not try to make a relationship with each other. Well i ended up pregnant.


He Went on and Married his high school sweet heart and the had one child together and i gave birth to his daughter. no regrets there. fortunately just 9 months after giving birth I met my soul mate hitch hiking with my baby. we ended up married and sex was amazing because we were in love. sadly he died just 11 days before our 5th anniversary 2 years later I met and married my 2nd husband ......because of domestic violence sex was an obligation a lot of the time. then I finally got the courage to leave him and we divorced in a twist of irony we became best of friends on a platonic level.Then I met and married my current husband for the first 2 months of our marriage sex was good,Then I started developing neurological problems which render me unable to feel any sexual sensations and then I developed congestive heart failure and emphysema so sex is absent in our marriage.I suggested he go get a girlfriend but he refused.we had our 9th anniversary on May 5,2015.

30.07.2015 09:08:21
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Roman
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Freethinkerland
30.07.2015 17:46:13
Roman

This is absolutely incredible. I am so sorry that so many experiences have been negative, but I want you all to know, that if it still hurts, though I may not understand, I'm walking beside you right now, holding your hand and telling you that somewhere in this world, someone has your back. Someone isn't judging you. Or staring at you with pity in their eyes. But smiling, and letting you know that we have this beautiful life to love and live. And there are lives out there that we can change. Continue to carry love and hope in your heart, and I promise I will too. Thank you so much for trusting me. Trusting this community of people. And thank you for listening and offering support and comfort.
Sex to me is terrifying, wonderful, and difficult to understand. Sex carries meaning and purpose. Sometimes those meanings aren't clear, but they're still there. Keep sharing, commenting, and offering support. Keep the love alive here.


30.07.2015 17:46:13
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Atheista
30.07.2015 18:10:42
BambiDoll

Roman wrote:
This is absolutely incredible. I am so sorry that so many experiences have been negative, but I want you all to know, that if it still hurts, though I may not understand, I'm walking beside you right now, holding your hand and telling you that somewhere in this world, someone has your back. Someone isn't judging you. Or staring at you with pity in their eyes. But smiling, and letting you know that we have this beautiful life to love and live. And there are lives out there that we can change. Continue to carry love and hope in your heart, and I promise I will too. Thank you so much for trusting me. Trusting this community of people. And thank you for listening and offering support and comfort.
Sex to me is terrifying, wonderful, and difficult to understand. Sex carries meaning and purpose. Sometimes those meanings aren't clear, but they're still there. Keep sharing, commenting, and offering support. Keep the love alive here.

I think the threads you've started on here are pretty amazing for encouraging others users to openly share stories/experiences about some quite difficult topics. It's particularly beneficial for those who might not have anyone to talk to. I like using message boards because it gives me a place to discuss my feelings on things like this openly with that anonymity. It's easy for me to be honest about things, and I think a lot of people here must feel similarly. Having such a supportive community can be super positive for anyone going through a rough time.

Thanks again, Roman. For contributing to this by creating a place where people feel comfortable to be so open.

30.07.2015 18:10:42

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