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im not sure of my sexuality, i know i check out guys and girls but im not sure if its sexual attraction or if its just aesthetic attraction. i think im only sexually attracted to people im in love with, but im not entirely sure, so i dont feel comfortable saying i identify with any sexuality. i might be demisexual and pansexual (demipansexual?) if anything.I had the same problem with bras! I'd suggest doing a diy measure to find a bra that fits perfectly? It really helped me out as nearly every measurements i had done professionally was alllways off. But remember pretty much every brand has slightly different sizes even though they're the same 'size' so its hard to get one just right, especially underwire ones. I too am a fan of sports bras, much more comfortable.
ive been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years now, we havent had sex because id rather wait until i move out (im only 18) but i know its something id like to do.
as for my opinion on sex, i have no problem with what anyone does with their body as long as its all consensual, and safe for everyone involved. has anyone heard of LaciGreen? she does informational videos on youtube about sex and gender, i found her pretty helpful in my teens when i had tons of questions that i couldnt ask my parents.
when i first started going through puberty i was so uncomfortable with my breasts. i felt they were gigantic, and as they grew i got so much more uncomfortable with them!! it really didnt help that i was teased by my mom and some of my friends about them :/ it also didnt help that nobody gave me the sex talk! i think if my mom had explained to me that what was happening to me was normal i wouldve been alot more ok with my body. but im not mad at her, she was probably uncomfortable about the whole thing too. anyways, eventually i made my peace with my breasts, it helped when i finally got some better bras but it seemed like as soon as i thought i was one size, or thought that i found a bra that fit, they got bigger again. i only really started wearing bras that are the right size in the last 2 ish years. i really prefer sports bras because i have either a d cup or double d, so finding wired bras that keep them from bouncing around is really hard for me. at least from my experience ive had better luck finding good sports bras than wired ones.
ive thought of measuring myself but now ive kind of figured out which sports bras will fit me and which wont based on how big they look, and their stretchyness/nonstretchyness. i think im getting the hang of it at least lol its always bothered me how much the same 'size' of bra can be much smaller or larger depending on brand. a few times ive found 'XL' sports bras that look more like size small its a bit ridiculous XD i agree, bras are a nightmare! good luck with getting top surgery btw :)
I had the same problem with bras! I'd suggest doing a diy measure to find a bra that fits perfectly? It really helped me out as nearly every measurements i had done professionally was alllways off. But remember pretty much every brand has slightly different sizes even though they're the same 'size' so its hard to get one just right, especially underwire ones. I too am a fan of sports bras, much more comfortable.
Personally I cant wait till I can afford top surgery, bras are a nightmare, i'd rather not need one xD
This is absolutely incredible. I am so sorry that so many experiences have been negative, but I want you all to know, that if it still hurts, though I may not understand, I'm walking beside you right now, holding your hand and telling you that somewhere in this world, someone has your back. Someone isn't judging you. Or staring at you with pity in their eyes. But smiling, and letting you know that we have this beautiful life to love and live. And there are lives out there that we can change. Continue to carry love and hope in your heart, and I promise I will too. Thank you so much for trusting me. Trusting this community of people. And thank you for listening and offering support and comfort.I think the threads you've started on here are pretty amazing for encouraging others users to openly share stories/experiences about some quite difficult topics. It's particularly beneficial for those who might not have anyone to talk to. I like using message boards because it gives me a place to discuss my feelings on things like this openly with that anonymity. It's easy for me to be honest about things, and I think a lot of people here must feel similarly. Having such a supportive community can be super positive for anyone going through a rough time.
Sex to me is terrifying, wonderful, and difficult to understand. Sex carries meaning and purpose. Sometimes those meanings aren't clear, but they're still there. Keep sharing, commenting, and offering support. Keep the love alive here.
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The Internet republic of Ximbo lands is the worlds first Internet republic.
What is its mission?
To unite the world.
Where is MissBimbo.com? Miss Bimbo was much better than this site.
The Internet republic of Ximbo land was created by Miss Bimbo herself and is its more
intelligent successor. The old site was for junior bimbos. This site is for intelligent Ximbos.
What is the national flag of Ximbo land?
When was the Internet republic of Ximbo land
founded
2007
What is the capital city of the Internet republic of
Ximbo land?
Bimbo City
How many states make up the internet republic of
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There are 6 states that make up the internet republic of Ximbo lands. They are
Atheistia, Freethinkerland, Reasonopia, Agnostica, Secville, and Antitheocra. Bimbo City is the neutral administrative
capital and is its own city zone. Boob Island is the home of the President of the Internet republic of Ximbo land
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In order to become a citizen of Ximboland you must first pass the Ximbolands citizens
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Ximbo.
Who is the Prime Ximbo?
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Where does the Prime Ximbo live?
The Prime Ximbo lives in the Pink House for the 4 month term they are in office.
I want to become Prime Ximbo. How do I do
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How often do elections take place?
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What's the national colour of Ximbo land?
Pink
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Jan 1st New years day
Feb 12th Darwin day
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