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LizardKiwi
Level 34
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Posts: 196
Atheista
09.04.2021 20:56:11
LizardKiwi

I'm listening to my friends "country music that gets a pass" playlist and ahhh I love it. Home vibes. Thanks Alan Jackson

09.04.2021 20:56:11
Call me Ezra pls :)
Strawberry Shortcake
RandyboBandy
Level 22
Status: Citizen
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Reputation: 5584
Posts: 43
Atheista
09.04.2021 22:26:13
RandyboBandy

Hey y’all .. tw abortion

Just coming here because I have anonymity ! I’ve been having a really rough past few weeks as I just missed my period and realized I’m pregnant. My bf and I had sex with no condom because we’re both sti free and I have a copper IUD (birth control), so it was an accident and I think the embryo is in my fallopian tube, which is super dangerous. Also I live below the poverty line right now because I’m a struggling 21 y/o musician who hasn’t had a gig since the pandemic hit and can’t afford college atm. Anyways so I can’t physically or financially handle a pregnancy right now. I scheduled an abortion for April 13th at my local planned parenthood. I’ve always been pro choice and never had more empathy for those who live in conservative areas with anti choice laws and bans. However there is an element of grief I’m feeling that I did not expect. It feels like a loss in a way, or that I’m doing something wrong :( I was raised Catholic so maybe that’s why idk. I think the hardest part is feeling like I can’t tell my family, because they’ll just lecture me about how I need to go to school and get a serious job, or that I’m a fuck up. And my mother can be very mean and judgmental too. Also my older brother is getting married in June so there’s already a lot of family drama and activity happening. And his fiancé was pregnant but her fetus stopped developing, which we just found out yesterday, so I feel like me getting an abortion would be cast in an even more shameful light from our collective grief for their unborn. 

I don’t know guys I just could really use some support right now, just someone to say I’m not making a selfish decision and that it’s okay.

❤️ thanks for reading ❤️


09.04.2021 22:26:13
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LizardKiwi
Level 34
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 30637
Reputation: 17188
Posts: 196
Atheista
09.04.2021 22:41:48
LizardKiwi

RandyboBandy, I'm really proud of you for having the strength to make the best decision for yourself right now. What is happening to your brother and his fiance is very sad and my heart goes out to them but what you're doing is not selfish. You are doing what's best for you right now. Ectopic pregnancies are incredibly dangerous to both you and the fetus. It also seems that you aren't financially ready for a child right now which is perfectly fine. I understand your grief and I think that's a perfectly normal emotion. Accidents happen and we deal with the situation in the best way we can in the moment. You should always, always do what you feel is best for you.

09.04.2021 22:41:48
Call me Ezra pls :)
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PlushKlavier
Level 135
Status: Citizen
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Posts: 1286
Reasonopia
09.04.2021 22:55:28
PlushKlavier

You are absolutely making the right decision to get an abortion if the pregnancy proves to be dangerous not only for your physical health but also mental health and financial stability, and even if none of that was in any danger you still have every right to get an abortion for any reason whatsoever because it's still your body and you get to decide what to do with it and what you're willing to make a lifelong commitment to

You're saving yourself a lot of pain and grief, not only physically because it's never a good idea to carry out a pregnancy that could endanger you, but also because raising a child you were not financially prepared for can be extremely stressful, especially if you're already struggling with getting money, and you're saving yourself from the possibility of mentally spiraling down and the possibility of not being able to afford the proper care the child needs

No one in your family has to know about you getting an abortion if you don't want them to know, and you don't have to feel guilty or bad about it, they're not entitled to knowing that information, but if you do wish to tell them make sure to pick the right time to do so where you feel like you can handle the potential backlash you might get

I wish you all the luck and I sincerely hope the procedure goes well for you, hang in there and stay strong, it's normal to feel grief over having to get an abortion since it is quite a mentally taxing procedure both before and after it happens, but all these bad feelings will pass eventually <3


09.04.2021 22:55:28

peeslurper69
Level 137
Status: Citizen
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Posts: 2490
Atheista
09.04.2021 23:52:54
peeslurper69

you do whatever is best for you and your situation randybobandy <3 much love to you

09.04.2021 23:52:54
your reluctant optimist 
DakotaJ
Level 24
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 10523
Reputation: 8047
Posts: 102
Agnostica
10.04.2021 01:32:15
DakotaJ

Here for the forum stats 

10.04.2021 01:32:15
CinnamonSugar
Level 160
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 3224404
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Posts: 6732
Freethinkerland
10.04.2021 02:08:16
CinnamonSugar

RandyboBandy wrote:

I don’t know guys I just could really use some support right now, just someone to say I’m not making a selfish decision and that it’s okay.

I know it's late, but I hope you see this. 
You are not being selfish. As you said, it's dangerous to have the fetus in the fallopian tube. It can be literally life-threatening. 

Even if it's not in your fallopian tube, I wouldn't call you selfish.  It's fine to not think now is a good time to have a child. Not just for you but for your child. Like, if you wait to have children when you're work is more stable or you're more financially secure, it could be better for your child(ren).

As for your family, I don't want to give advice so much as sympathize.
I do have a  Roman Catholic family, iincluding a very judgmental mother & an uncle who is a Roman Catholic priest. If I were pregnant, I probably wouldn't tell them because my mum would say horrible things to me. As much as I hate her being judgmental,  I can also see how it might feel bad hiding this information. It sucks not to feel supported by family. I hope that your partner is more supportive of your decisions (all life decisions not just pregnancy).

10.04.2021 02:08:16
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Juggalo Rights
Level 30
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Posts: 276
Atheista
10.04.2021 03:29:29
Juggalo Rights

prince phillip fucking died lol

10.04.2021 03:29:29
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Earth Sign Bastard
Level 25
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 12480
Reputation: 7097
Posts: 9
Atheista
10.04.2021 05:19:04
Earth Sign Bastard

I REALLY want soup from Olive Garden but they’re closed :/ I feel sick and it always makes me feel better

10.04.2021 05:19:04

peeslurper69
Level 137
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 2045646
Reputation: 220599
Posts: 2490
Atheista
10.04.2021 05:23:48
peeslurper69

Juggalo Rights wrote:
prince phillip fucking died lol
crab rave

10.04.2021 05:23:48
your reluctant optimist 

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What is Ximbo land ?
The Internet republic of Ximbo lands is the worlds first Internet republic.

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Where is MissBimbo.com? Miss Bimbo was much better than this site.
The Internet republic of Ximbo land was created by Miss Bimbo herself and is its more intelligent successor. The old site was for junior bimbos. This site is for intelligent Ximbos.

What is the national flag of Ximbo land?
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