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falling out of love with my boyfriend

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18.03.2016
Cum_Dumpster
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Freethinkerland
18.03.2016 01:32:43
Cum_Dumpster

Sounds like it's time to move on. Don't get stuck in a relationship that doesn't do anything for you but hurt and stress.

18.03.2016 01:32:43
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Update 2022: Site has been soured for me so I took a break. Still not certain about coming back...
maniatica
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Atheista
18.03.2016 09:29:43
maniatica

it sounds like he has no real intrest in changing... it sounds like he only wants you "to shut up", so he says he will do better or stop doing something, or he makes you shut up by pointing on your "mistakes".
i can understand that this makes you unhappy!
i think i try to tell him, how his behaviour makes me feel and that i am really unhappy... then see what his reaction is. probably he didn't realize how serious you are about it and did not really understand what consequenzes his behaviour has for you... and you can talk about it again and probably not just talk about what to change but also how to change it (and probably discuss if he/you need some help with that and who could help him/you).
the other chance is, that he goes on like he did before and tries to hide stuff, talk you out of it or point on your "mistakes"... then i would consider to end it, because that would mean you are the only one working in/on this relationship.



18.03.2016 09:29:43

Ceres
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Secville
18.03.2016 14:11:42
Ceres

I recently broke up with my bf of almost 4 years. Yes unfortunately he said he couldnt deal with my quadpolar moods ( yet they didnt show up in months) but the time he said ets separate he said it was his fault not mine. sigh its a lot of drama but if its not right love don't stay.

18.03.2016 14:11:42
Phuckinbimbo
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Freethinkerland
18.03.2016 17:03:18
Phuckinbimbo

I've been telling myself not to get into this since you first posted this because of personal and mental health reasons but something you said up there is very troubling to me. You threw out a very serious red flag in what you said. Abusers blame and go on the attack when confronted. Please take care of yourself. Know I love you as the human being you are. I won't tell you what to do. Only you know what is right for yourself. I hope you don't hurt yourself.

18.03.2016 17:03:18
One can not feel when they have no soul.





HeavenLeighBimbo
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Freethinkerland
18.03.2016 22:39:19
HeavenLeighBimbo

The opening post was a short description to me, about a male behavior that is as common as oxygen in a relationship.

   Male nature is uniquely selfish.   SEX is a primary concern. A male like you described is in the relationship for sex only, by they way he disregards your feeling's once he has what he want's.  The more you let him abuse this love you have for him, the less he will respect you.   Isn't that obvious?
   Yes, you wrote it, between the line's.  I could see it very obviously because you asked the question YOURSELF.  You know that he is using you, but don't want to admit that you no longer love a man who disrespects you because you are honorable and did believe he was in love with you...  in the beginning.

I want to write about the men I know.  It wouldn't be flattering to the species, however.  I've come to only one conclusion about men.
    Women are SEX, and nothing more, unless they put a ring on your finger.
  So crying about a boyfriend is very pointless if your having sex with him.  He will run off with a woman like me without even a second thought about you. I can do things, very few women can do, and men see that as sexual perfection because they are visual animal's.  Someone they could never have, without large amount's of money, so small amount's and watching is all they can hope to do.   Then they get frustrated and are demanding of MATE's they do have.
   I don't mean to make that sound like a threat,  but it is a reality.  Men like to explore vaginas. If he begins to complain about a home life, he is likely comparing it to another BED.

  I really dislike MEN, and I'm not the best one for advice on this subject.  As an Exotic Dancer and actress,  I was paid by boyfriends like your's to listen to him.   
   It did little to make me respect the emotions they shared with me. Mostly I had to ignore everything they said.  For them, it was always,  'my girlfriend want's this and that, and she is a total bitch.'  Dancing while your 'sex' is being disrespected it not an easy thing to do.( women are my sisters and yes, a few men were escorted out with black eyes if they crossed my personal line of disrespect for wives and girlfriends... )
  OK,  thanks for $500.00.  " What is the Girlfriend going to say the next day in a small flat, with no food on the table,  and the man want's the sex I wouldn't give him bare ass naked and wiggling on a pole   ?   Think about that,  the next time your boyfriend says sorry, and want's back into your bed.
Perhaps a more honest and emotionally stable man  might be a better mate, for all concerned.

  Just saying,  because I know;  My perspective is a bit on the dark side.  Boyfriends like your's made me into a very wealthy woman.
  This may not be your situation,  but is only my observations of the 'boyfriends' of other women, I've been in contact with.
Keep your hands to Yourself.
  Yes I danced to this song, filled with Moon Shine, and an ass like glass.
  No Touchy, Baby !!!!
  It's my anthem !!!
  Tease the Boies Proper, and send them home, to those they hurt.

They really shouldn't mess with Bitches like me with so much to lose.




18.03.2016 22:39:19
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PrincessEstell
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Antitheocra
19.03.2016 02:09:56
PrincessEstell

just kidding. i was on my period so i was moody. idk why i said boyfriend since we're actually engaged and getting married in april. LOL. sorry guys. im pretty crazy

19.03.2016 02:09:56
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BeautyXRush
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Freethinkerland
19.03.2016 03:35:52
BeautyXRush

My husband was very similar and now we're divorced so be careful.  I married a man I thought was this wonderful kind person. He turned out to be a very selfish, angry, abusive and dishonest man. So if you can't trust him now, marriage won't solve it. Trust me. 

19.03.2016 03:35:52
PrincessEstell
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Antitheocra
19.03.2016 08:59:29
PrincessEstell

BeautyXRush wrote:
My husband was very similar and now we're divorced so be careful.  I married a man I thought was this wonderful kind person. He turned out to be a very selfish, angry, abusive and dishonest man. So if you can't trust him now, marriage won't solve it. Trust me. 
i appreciated all the answers in my post and was happy noone "blamed" me but noone is perfect..it kinda seems stupid and naiive, but lets just say his good outweighs the bad. he's pretty hard-headed, doesn't want to admit his faults and gets upset when im angry but he's always surprising me whether its a planned trip on the weekends by surprise or flowers when he comes back from work. or whenever i meet a friend they look at me like "so youre the girl (boyfriends name) is crazy about" and says hes lucky. idk, i feel really safe with him. he's loyal and he shows his love. he was also in an abusive relationship and when we were first together he was emotionally very jumpy..like he was always on the defense. but hes gotten better. im truly sorry for posting this thread, i was moody and was upset and i cant even remember why. :c 

19.03.2016 08:59:29
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Phuckinbimbo
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Freethinkerland
19.03.2016 16:28:57
Phuckinbimbo

WOW! I've been to hell and back several times over with a man and I would never degrade them like what is posted here. Men are no more of animals than women are. Sure it hurts like hell when we love and it doesn't end the way we hoped it would but there is also an equal and opposite effect. It only hurts that much because it was so good. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be loved, wanted, needing attention...
I often wonder about females who hate men for wanting their vaginas. I often think they are latent lesbians or looking to be in a relationship with gays. It strikes me as bad as men who are women haters. Something is wrong there no matter what. Love and sex is normal between men and women. It is something to treasure.

19.03.2016 16:28:57
One can not feel when they have no soul.





HeavenLeighBimbo
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Freethinkerland
19.03.2016 18:42:52
HeavenLeighBimbo

 Seems I touched a nerve.  It is only an opinion.  To salvage any honor I have left,  I am not a sex-worker.  I am an entertainer.  My body is very much off limit's.

19.03.2016 18:42:52
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