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19.11.2015

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HeavenLeighBimbo

HeavenLeighBimbo

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19.11.2015 09:11:09
HeavenLeighBimbo

Sex, The topic of everyday life.
Everyone is touched by it every day. Here is the place to form your thoughts to share, in your debate profile.
You can always have the final-say about sex.
Learn from the other players, and share your stories. Questions? comments?

19.11.2015 09:11:09

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HeavenLeighBimbo

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19.11.2015 10:18:14
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Sex is such a dangerous subject for me. I suppose I worry about how detailed I can get about a rather perverse life. Nothing scary, but just unusual.
While I was making this topic a thought came to me about the time I made a man have an orgasm and nothing was touching his body at all. Only his eyes were teased, and his mind. I'm not sure if you could consider that a "sex act ". For me it didn't feel pleasurable, but for him it was. So in all my life most of my sex life has been foreplay of one form or another. However, I hate that word foreplay. It seems to....... tame, and routinely used.

19.11.2015 10:18:14

Floydthatcrazylass

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19.11.2015 19:52:13
Floydthatcrazylass

I suppose a sexual act could be considered anything that would purposely give you or another sexual pleasure. Although you can engage in sex and not enjoy it, I know this all too well. It all depends on what you like. For some feet send them over the edge, personal that would really make me cringe and have my legs crossing so tight I might have to have them physical cut open again. Preferably I like to be in control of things but I have found in the past that men I have been with are a bit put off by my desire to take charge in the bedroom. My husband is fine with my need to do stuff my way but other women he has been with had described him as being intouch with his feminine side in bed. I often wonder if taking the lead during sex has made my ex partners feel imasculated. also I have always found it a bit upsetting that a gentle and thoughtful male lover is considered feminine by some. I don't consider a forceful partner in bed a manly one. Shouldn't that be considered a bit dangerous, to be pushed and bullied into doing something, or not to have your needs considered. I know I like to have my cake and eat it but I could never be so inconsiderate in that area, when I have been told to stop I do. No hesitation.

19.11.2015 19:52:13

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luxokay

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21.11.2015 17:53:36
luxokay

My partner and I are equals in the bedroom. We both like to be more dominant or more submissive at different times, so we take turns, but the most important thing is that we have a sort of unspoken agreement that sex acts aren't for the O, but more a proclamation of love. I think that if you don't feel safe and comfortable with your partner, you really should reevaluate what you want out of your sex/love life. That being said, you do you and don't regret it. If you want to have one-offs with sexy strangers, and you're doing it for your own pleasure and recreation, absolutely go for it! Just remember to take care of yourself, don't go off with someone who may hurt you just because you're on a reckless tangent, and try and find out if your partners have any sort of STIs. You body is the only one you'll ever have, so celebrate it in whatever way you want, but cherish and protect it at the same time.

21.11.2015 17:53:36

BambiDoll

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27.11.2015 19:51:39
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So I have a sex/love related story about something that's been bothering me loads and affecting my health and happiness lately...

As you probably know, I've been totally AWOL (from this site). Things have been going pretty great with me though, trying to focus on myself. I finally have a really lovely part time job, so I'm earning a bit of money right now to keep myself going. I've also had an internship and a couple of interviews for actual full time jobs in the career I really want - Feeling pretty unstoppable at the minute!

Something I thought was a positive change in my life was letting go of an emotionally overwhelming relationship in my life (with someone I still do love very deeply) whilst I recovered from my depression/anxiety. During this time, I saw no harm in dating just for fun. I actually met someone I thought was really amazing and absolutely perfect. We just clicked and had the most fun dates together. It felt like a positive thing in my life...

...until I had sex with him. It was a big thing for me to be sleeping with someone new so soon after we'd just met. He and I really fancied each other so much and it just felt like the totally right decision to make. But then during, it didn't feel so good to me. Like, his penis was unexpectedly huge. So uncomfortable the whole time, not exactly the lovely exciting experience I was hoping for. I thought I was going to vomit at one point during. I also thought about how it just wasn't the same as my lovely boy from before: This guy was really rough and kind of absolute filth with the way he spoke and treated me. I think it doesn't really make me feel good to do that with someone for the first time, when we're not in a relationship. With my ex, he and I would do certain things in the bedroom which I guess you could consider a bit rough and naughty... but when you know, at the end of the day, that you have a loving, trusting relationship with that person, and those kinds of attitudes are restricted to the bedroom, it doesn't fuck with your head so much.

Never felt so cheap as did when dating this new guy who treated me like an absolute princess, then an absolute slut during AND then after the sex. He told me he was seeing friends that weekend after and sent a text to say he'll be quiet all weekend, because he doesn't like to text in front of his mates... but he was actually seeing his long distance girlfriend and had sex with her three days after me. I didn't know this until a couple of weeks back, when he also told me that I was just "some girl" he didn't care about and only went on a few dates to sleep with me. I'm not heartbroken, but my ego feels seriously crushed by all of this.

A week ago he messaged me to say he's got chlamydia and that it's definitely my fault, because there's no way his girlfriend who he loves very much (and probably doesn't treat like some sort of whore) could have slept with someone else, or do no wrong ever... He accused me of being 'dirty' and destroying his relationship, since he'll never get to be on good terms with her again, since I'm apparently the reason she now has an easily curable STI.

I went to the clinic today for a full test, and to talk about what's happened. I don't know if I actually have it or not until up to 2 weeks from now, but the doctor gave me the treatment to take for it anyway: It's just four pills and I swallowed them all one-by-one like an absolute champion. Oh, and I've also blocked that guy out of my life completely. It's definitely going to be hard for me to trust men from now on.

27.11.2015 19:51:39

Floydthatcrazylass

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27.11.2015 21:38:02
Floydthatcrazylass

Yikes Bambi sounds like you got tangled up with a grade A dickhead! I feel for you I truly do. I'm no master of relationships, in fact I'm a bit of a maverick when it comes to the whole casual dating and sex side of things, but what I can tell you, and what I think would apply to everyone, is to always expect the unexpected when it comes to romps in the bedroom (or anywhere else for that matter). From the few sex partners I've had, I've had experiences I would rate as low as 1 and as high as 10 and all the numbers in-between. I've dated some total wankers in the past (they occur in both genders believe me) that have only wanted sex from me or not at all cared about how I feel when having sex with them. Thankfully those days are over with. Yet I always tried to be open minded when it came to intercourse, even from my first time, I never went in thinking it was going to be the most wonderful experience of my life bar none. I knew it would hurt, I knew it would be embarrassing to an extent and I knew it wasn't going to be a thoroughly magical moment that I would cherish forever. Anyone who has had that during a first sexual experience with someone is bloody lucky or must know exactly what they are doing in all areas in order to make it that freaking awesome. I know that when you are very attracted to a person it can be difficult not to see sex as the most desirable and breathtaking thing, but just try and keep yourself grounded for the most part. For one lower your expectations so if it does turn out to be naff then you don't have as far to fall when it comes to disappointment. As nice as someone may be and as much as you might like them it doesn't mean you both will connect as well as physical lovers. Sometimes it takes practice other times you just need to face the fact that it's not going to work. You seem to have had the absolute shit luck of finding someone who is never going to be any good. It made me laugh when you said he told you he loved his girlfriend so much. Yeah sure buddy, that's why you need to find other girls to stick it to. I really hate it when people in long distance relationships use it as an excuse to sleep around. I was in a long distance relationship with my husband for two years before we lived together finally, neither of us felt the need to jump anyone else’s bones. We just had tons of sex when we were together; it worked for us! Sounds to me like your ex-man is thinking with the wrong head. I can't abide cheaters who attempt to justify their behaviour in any way other than it being wrong. Well sounds like you are most definitely better off without him. Eradicate that pig from you conscious memory as easily as you eradicated that silly STD (he most likely gave you by the sounds of it, uck. Also condoms! they prevent this junk from happening!!!!). Don't be deterred from relationships by some jack-ass and know that you are not alone in this kind of thing. Chalk it up as a lesson well learnt. I'm sure you know this already but just reminding you chick. Be strong because you are! (◡‿◡✿)

27.11.2015 21:38:02

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Zalter

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04.12.2015 10:30:46
Zalter

I'm not sure but I think I might be one of the younger users here. It's kind of embarassing to talk about sex with older people, hehe...
Anyway, short story time!!1

Recently, I've gone into a friends with benefits-kind of relationship. With emphasis on friends because we really do have the best of times together. And we also have sex. I've confessed to a lot of kinks and he is just happy to make my ~dreams come true~. It's great and he's great and I enjoy it all.

Presenting problem: He is waaay more experienced in sex than me, and that somehow makes me feel inferior. Kind of like... I can't give him the pleasure he gives me?
I suppose it's sexual confidence I'm lacking. But how do I get that? I feel like it solely depends on other peoples approval of me.

04.12.2015 10:30:46

Ceres

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04.12.2015 13:17:22
Ceres

Sex is hmmm a topic that i cant really relate with.
It's like i'm always around people who can easily talk about it but i'm most likely the one who says nothing on the matter.
I'm celibate for months now. I have had sex but it wasn't full penetration so I don't even know how to call or phrase it.

04.12.2015 13:17:22

Floydthatcrazylass

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04.12.2015 22:43:47
Floydthatcrazylass

Zalter wrote:

I'm not sure but I think I might be one of the younger users here. It's kind of embarassing to talk about sex with older people, hehe...
Anyway, short story time!!1

Recently, I've gone into a friends with benefits-kind of relationship. With emphasis on friends because we really do have the best of times together. And we also have sex. I've confessed to a lot of kinks and he is just happy to make my ~dreams come true~. It's great and he's great and I enjoy it all.

Presenting problem: He is waaay more experienced in sex than me, and that somehow makes me feel inferior. Kind of like... I can't give him the pleasure he gives me?
I suppose it's sexual confidence I'm lacking. But how do I get that? I feel like it solely depends on other peoples approval of me.

Sex isn't a points system. If you both enjoy it then that is the main thing and it should be enough reason to feel confident. Your friend with benefits (or fuck buddy to be blunt) is cumming every time, I don't see how he can not be enjoying it. If you really don't believe you are fulfilling his 'desires' then ask him what he would like to do. It's a two way thing, it isn't just about either one of you. Obviously you aren't too shy to try new stuff as you said you have confessed your 'kinks' to him so... visa versa? Also sexual experience in the sense of knowing how to 'please' one person simply comes with having sex with them more. Everyone is different in what they like so sex with another person isn't going to show you how to pleasure the person you are with. Ok people who have had multiple partners are usually more confident, but it doesn't mean they are better in bed. The only way to gain confidence with sex, even if it's casual, it to do it in a safe and comfortable environment, with a person you trust. The more sexual experiences you have with that person will build your confidence when having sex with them.

04.12.2015 22:43:47

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HeavenLeighBimbo

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07.12.2015 17:46:26
HeavenLeighBimbo

I just got a call from a sexual partner. She is my stalker.
I told the story about her, about a 8 months ago, but that is a long story to rewrite for the new readers.

When she actually calls first it means something is up with her.

Our friendship is purely sexual, and I can't figure out why she plays this game with me. I play it with her too, just for the sheer strangeness of having a real honest to god stalker, who is not dangerous, just...... sexual. I got excited the second I heard her voice. That nervousness, stage fright sort of being watched, like she was hiding in my house sort of scared. It actually took some time to convince she was still several hundred miles away.
I must admit, during a lifetime of very good sex life, she is my most exciting one ever for some very good reasons. Sex with her is always so spontaneous, and different. Like we had always been having it, or she is reading my mind and body. Is a sexual soul-mate possible?

She is not someone I could ever think of actually introducing her to any of my friends or children.
My secret lover, who uses and perfectly pleasures my body, on her terms only.

She's got me on the edge.

07.12.2015 17:46:26

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