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Bebe92583 - I never thought of myself as sexy or hot.. I grew up with parents who told me I was pretty, smart, and I could be anything I wanted to be. As a teenager I was confident in who I was. When I went to collage and realized how sheltered my life was, that I was short, I had small boobs and a big butt, my hair wasn't how people thought it should be, I am bi-racial my mother is black and my father is Japanese. I was too light for some to dark for others too quiet for most. I learned that most girls cared about what the guys around them thought I didn't care what anyone thought about me except my family. My boyfriend of 3 years was pressuring me to have sex and I explained to him I was not doing that I was not having sex until my wedding night. This was not a popular choice and eventually I caught him cheating and I was able to walk away from that relationship and never speak to him again. The next year when I transferred schools to be closer to my family my first sexual experience was taken from me on my hallway floor in my apartment by someone I knew all my life..because he thought I was a tease..I was unaware of what men thought of me or how they saw me ..I didn't care..after this I started using men (mostly older men) for sex. Then I met my husband who told me I was gorgeous and beautiful but once we got married and couldn't have children right away made me very insecure. I was told gain 10 pounds gain 10 more pounds do this and do that. I almost ran my husband away with my insecurities. Today as I sit here waiting for my twins to be born I put stress on myself to be a great wife and mom because that's the way of the world. I wish I could get back that confident me I used to be. I second guess everything even when Have a great man cheering me on. I try my best to be positive and not listen to what society think I should look like act like and sound like.Carmel I learned as an adult that "Sexy and Beautiful is in the eye of the beholder" My first Husband and soul mate who is deceased and has been for 31 years thought I was beautiful and sexy and smart all the qualities he looked for. My second husband to whom I was married for 25 years before he died also thought I was an awesome person but unlike my soulmate he had some domestic violence issues that caused us to live apart .I have had to learn from a standpoint of being rejected as i got sick as not good "enough" by my current s/o who is on his way to be coming an ex .its a bi-racial marriage but that is not the reason that the relationship is effectively over.He cant quit cheating and has done so since day 1 he now has 5 or 6 women on the string . he meets them on the internet etc .physically I am no prize package but I am still a good person .I have turned my energy in to running online forums on facebook one is called friendship forever .the other is called Our Voice Community a COPD/Emphysema support group. one group is connected to a forum that has community help information for those in need.That said I personally think you and others in this community are truly awesome people.It is what's inside that makes a person beautiful and sexy not the physical body. any one can be slim /trim beautiful physically but still be ugly!
After menopause, you sort of have to cart your own territory on what is "sexy". I layer many Joe Malone perfumes on and wear nice underwear. I stay neat. I take pride in knowing that now I've learned enough about relationships to "Love Myself More". I'm amused when 20 somethings give me a second look. Being able to laugh at yourself and the inevitable decline into old age knowing it's all a healing process is a secret I find sexy now.I tend to disagree that one should wait until after menopause.one should learn to define themselves before menopause and learn to laugh at themselves.I don't worry about being attractive now in my mid 50's. I am actually happier being me without all the phony pretense.I dress in kick back clothes with little regard to their "sex appeal" i don't care about "sexy" underwear. plain old cotton is good enough.I love bath powder,perfume,body wash and body sprays.My hair is almost hip length and thick. its a pain in the wind as it blows in my face.However I get lots of compliments on my hair LOL. My kids gift me with Tabu perfume because its a scent they associate with me from their childhood.they also know that I love bath and body works,Chanel#5,Old Navy ,Charlie almost anything goes as far as perfume or cologne goes. I don't wear make up or jewelry and never have .I have a closet full of super nice clothes that I never wear but no dress shoes LOL. What gets worn until they fall apart is my kick back clothes and my flip flops.
What is Ximbo land ?
The Internet republic of Ximbo lands is the worlds first Internet republic.
What is its mission?
To unite the world.
Where is MissBimbo.com? Miss Bimbo was much better than this site.
The Internet republic of Ximbo land was created by Miss Bimbo herself and is its more
intelligent successor. The old site was for junior bimbos. This site is for intelligent Ximbos.
What is the national flag of Ximbo land?
When was the Internet republic of Ximbo land
founded
2007
What is the capital city of the Internet republic of
Ximbo land?
Bimbo City
How many states make up the internet republic of
Ximbo land?
There are 6 states that make up the internet republic of Ximbo lands. They are
Atheistia, Freethinkerland, Reasonopia, Agnostica, Secville, and Antitheocra. Bimbo City is the neutral administrative
capital and is its own city zone. Boob Island is the home of the President of the Internet republic of Ximbo land
What is a Ximbo citizen?
A ‘Ximbo’ or ‘Ximbo citizen’ is a member of the internet republic of Ximbolands
community.
How can I become a Ximbo citizen?
In order to become a citizen of Ximboland you must first pass the Ximbolands citizens
test. It is free to become a Ximbo citizen.
What is a Ximbo senator?
A Ximbo senator is a senior member of the Internet republic of Ximbo land. Only senators
are eligible to put themselves forward for election to become State Ministers and then ultimately the Prime
Ximbo.
Who is the Prime Ximbo?
The Prime Ximbo is the democratically elected head of the Internet republic of Ximbo
land.
Where does the Prime Ximbo live?
The Prime Ximbo lives in the Pink House for the 4 month term they are in office.
I want to become Prime Ximbo. How do I do
that?
Any Ximbo citizen can become Prime Ximbo using the democratic process. Its a 3 stage
process from Senator>State Minister> Prime Ximbo. All Ximbo citizens can vote in general elections but in order to
put themselves forward to become Prime Ximbo they must first become a Ximbo senator. All Ximbo senators are
electable as state ministers. State Minister elections take place every 4 months also. Only state ministers are eligible
to then become the Prime Ximbo.
Can I become Prime Ximbo more than once?
Yes a Ximbo can hold the position of Prime Ximbo for 3 terms max.
How often do elections take place?
The Internet republic of Ximbolands holds elections every 4 months for Prime Ximbo and 4
months for State Minister.
Where do important discussions take place?
The Forum.
What is the treasury/Prime Ximbos salary?
The treasury/salary is the bank account of the Internet republic of Ximbo land. This figure
is transferred to the paypal account of the Prime Ximbo at the end of their 4 month term in charge.
How is the treasury calculated?
The treasury is funded by the Ximbo citizens.
A percentage of the money paid by Ximbo citizens via Paypal and SMS is transferred into the Ximbo treasury.
The rest is wisely used for further game development.
What's the national colour of Ximbo land?
Pink
How old must I be in order to become a Ximbo land
citizen?
Anyone over the age of 18 are welcome to become a Ximbo citizen.
When are the national holidays of Ximbo
land?
Jan 1st New years day
Feb 12th Darwin day
Feb 14th Lovers day
March 8th Womens day
March 21st Spring solstice
April 13th The Hitchslap Day (Christopher Hitchens birthday)
May 3rd National day of reason
June 21st World Humanist Day
Aug 2nd The Internet republic of Ximbo land national day
Sep 21st Peace one day
Dec 25th Newtons birthday
What is the currency of Ximbo land?
The Ximbo Dollar (B$). Currently it is pegged in value to the US$
Who is the President of Ximbo land?
Miss Bimbo is the president of Ximbo land. She founded the bimbo nation in 2007 after
escaping the tyranny, bigotry and and conservatism of the old world. You can read more about her here
and here