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LGBT+ Secretaries

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Created
17.02.2021
Author
draculaura
Dean Winchester
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Reasonopia
17.02.2021 23:26:23
Dean Winchester

draculaura wrote:
miesha wrote:
I’d like someone who just isn’t against their own community. For example, someone who’s pro-neopronouns, not transmed, doesn’t police identities, literally just someone who wouldn’t act the same as any other cishet. It’s also not that hard to find someone like this on here. 
True, I've seen plenty of other LGBT+ people on here like what you're describing, but I think it's still important to specify things like that because it helps others take that into consideration while choosing appropriate candidates
That’s true. I feel like as long as someone isn’t a freak (ie kalvin garrah type behavior) and is willing to own up to their mistakes if they happen, it would go fine. Above all, the lgbt secretaries should be open minded and willing to learn from eachother and their community.

17.02.2021 23:26:23


Poison Black
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Secville
17.02.2021 23:27:49
Poison Black

Dean Winchester wrote:
yes exactly! I’m hoping that by having multiple secretaries this would help with people feeling unsafe. I also have a couple of ideas to help with communication between the pink house and the user base. People would be able to feel like they can safely talk to the lgbt secretaries about lgbt concerns and ideally most if not all minority groups would have someone in the pink house they feel safe talking to about concerns relating to discrimination.
It's kinda the original idea! hahaha. Like, it's less stressful to talk with someone you can relate to and that can relate to your problems, I guess. Look, I really appreciate that everyone is trying to find a way to help us to improve the site and the mood of the game. However, I think that before anything else, we need to make the role work the way it was intended to work, which means that the community must be willing to work with the chosen Secretary if we got a new one. Regards the fact it being elected by votes, it's kinda complicated because it could be ended up being a victory for the most popular candidate.

Also, I'm not sure if it's a good idea at this moment because it's a role that could potentially bring a lot of stress and pressure to the person who was selected to do it. At this point, I don't have many things to add to this conversation right now, but I'm paying attention to this thread, ok?

Regards, Poison Black. 

17.02.2021 23:27:49


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Dean Winchester
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Reasonopia
17.02.2021 23:33:47
Dean Winchester

Poison Black wrote:
Dean Winchester wrote:
yes exactly! I’m hoping that by having multiple secretaries this would help with people feeling unsafe. I also have a couple of ideas to help with communication between the pink house and the user base. People would be able to feel like they can safely talk to the lgbt secretaries about lgbt concerns and ideally most if not all minority groups would have someone in the pink house they feel safe talking to about concerns relating to discrimination.
It's kinda the original idea! hahaha. Like, it's less stressful to talk with someone you can relate to and that can relate to your problems, I guess. Look, I really appreciate that everyone is trying to find a way to help us to improve the site and the mood of the game. However, I think that before anything else, we need to make the role work the way it was intended to work, which means that the community must be willing to work with the chosen Secretary if we got a new one. Regards the fact it being elected by votes, it's kinda complicated because it could be ended up being a victory for the most popular candidate.

Also, I'm not sure if it's a good idea at this moment because it's a role that could potentially bring a lot of stress and pressure to the person who was selected to do it. At this point, I don't have many things to add to this conversation right now, but I'm paying attention to this thread, ok?

Regards, Poison Black. 
You’re right that it would be a lot of pressure on one person which is why we were all thinking about having multiple people do the one job of secretary. Not only does it spread the workload out, it also means that there is less chance of tokenization happening, cus there would be multiple people doing this job. This job is not an easy one and I definitely think it needs multiple people to do it. As for the popularity thing, hopefully people would actually read the letters that the nominees wrote and choose the five best options. You do have a lot of valid concerns and I think that there’s ways around some of these problems that will make the secretary position work

17.02.2021 23:33:47


traggot
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Atheista
17.02.2021 23:41:20
traggot

draculaura wrote:
What criteria must someone fit in to be a secretary for LGBT+ people in Bimboland? What traits would best represent us? Ex: views, history in Bimboland, etc.
I just want to specifically focus on this point, since my thoughts on this question can be reasonably easily listed and i want to restate what other users have mentioned in a format that lists out the criteria we believes secretaries should fit. Obviously I can't speak for everyone and other people may have some more specific extra criteria they'd include, so other users who want to add to my list within reason please feel free to.
At least 18 years old, as this is a plausibly stressful position and personally I wouldn't be comfortable asking 16/17 year olds to take it up.
At least over level 21 and with at least 4 months on the site. No harm to newbies or anyone below that but I think this would be best as it shows they've demonstrated actively using the site, something clearly required to fit this position well.
More than one secretary should be a user of color. Having an all-white team has the obvious issue and only having a single secretary of color will inherently lead way to the possible tokenization that the previous secretary felt and lead to her leaving the position, even if this happens unintentionally.
At least one secretary of color should specifically be black. This I emphasize due to the fact recent suggestion of antiblackness has been completely dismissed without even being considered as an accidental possibility, and also the tendency for antiblackness that nonblack POC can often hold.
At least two secretaries should be transgender or, in the potential case of people who ID w cultural identities that cant easily be defined into western trans/cis binary/nonbinary binaries, otherwise not cisgender. Having an all-cis team would be an issue for the obvious reason, and only one trans team member would inherently lead to the same issue that only one secretary of color would bring up.
At least one trans secretary should specifically be transfeminine. This I emphasize for the same reasons I emphasize the point of a black team member, as TME trans people can often hold hugely transmisogynistic views. (TME meaning transmisogyny-exempt, anyone who is not directly oppressed by transmisogyny)At least two secretaries should be disabled in some way. I emphasize two for the same reason I say this about trans and/or of color secretaries, any possibility of users feeling tokenized while in the position should be avoided.
At least one of the disabled secretaries should be physically disabled. I emphasize this only due to the fact a lot of disabled but not physically disabled people can often hold hugely ableist views towards physically disabled people, such as considering their struggles "easier" and more "acknowledged" by society.At least one, preferably two, of the secretaries should be of minority faith. (Muslim, Jewish, Hindu, cultural belief systems, etc.,)
Users applying to be considered for the position should be asked to show that they know and understand terminology used by the communities the position exists to defend. Asking users applying to define basic terms used by these communities (such as TME, transfem, transmasc, POC, NT, goy, etc) and define their opinions on things such as truscum, TWERF ideology, "nonbinary-skeptics", anti-neopronouns sentiment, anti-he/him women or she/her men sentiment, etc., would be a good way to do this.

17.02.2021 23:41:20
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draculaura
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Atheista
18.02.2021 02:48:30
draculaura

traggot wrote:
draculaura wrote:
What criteria must someone fit in to be a secretary for LGBT+ people in Bimboland? What traits would best represent us? Ex: views, history in Bimboland, etc.
I just want to specifically focus on this point, since my thoughts on this question can be reasonably easily listed and i want to restate what other users have mentioned in a format that lists out the criteria we believes secretaries should fit. Obviously I can't speak for everyone and other people may have some more specific extra criteria they'd include, so other users who want to add to my list within reason please feel free to...
I think this post, which I cut off so you know which I'm talking about and so it's not too long, is a great specification of what we need. To cut it down for people who had trouble reading it- 

General criteria:

18+ Level 21+ and has spend 4+ months on Bimboland Basic knowledge of LGBT+ and related termsNo history of being hateful towards other marginalized groupsEx: being transphobic as a cis personNo history of being hateful towards those in same communityEx: being a transmedicalist trans person
Diversity
(can include more than minimum):

Minimum two secretaries of color At least one must be black Minimum two trans secretaries At least one must be transmisogyny affected Minimum two disabled secretaries At least one must be physically disabled Minimum one, ideally at least two secretaries belonging to a marginalized religionEx: Islam, Judaism, Hinduism, etc.Overall I think this is a really good description of who best to represent us, but with those specifics, I'd recommend that we start looking at at least 5 secretaries, since it will be easier to reach the criteria above with an additional secretary or two as compared to the original suggestion of 3 or 4.

18.02.2021 02:48:30

dipsydoll
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Atheista
18.02.2021 03:02:18
dipsydoll

if there was some kind of way to find out who is disliking each and every single post without fail i just KNOW it would be good. its like the equivalent of the angry kid in the classroom who got called out for being an unhelpful little jerk and now instead of shaping up theyre just glaring PERFORMATIVELY, UNNATURALLY hard, dead silent, crossing their arms at their desk so you KNOW you made them VERY ANGRY

all that aside tho, thats a pretty good and comprehensive list. the hard part is getting anyone to unplug their ears though, ykwim





18.02.2021 03:02:18
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draculaura
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Atheista
18.02.2021 03:06:45
draculaura

dipsydoll wrote:
if there was some kind of way to find out who is disliking each and every single post without fail i just KNOW it would be good. its like the equivalent of the angry kid in the classroom who got called out for being an unhelpful little jerk and now instead of shaping up theyre just glaring PERFORMATIVELY, UNNATURALLY hard, dead silent, crossing their arms at their desk so you KNOW you made them VERY ANGRY

all that aside tho, thats a pretty good and comprehensive list. the hard part is getting anyone to unplug their ears though, ykwim


Yeah, it's pretty frustrating. I usually disregard dislikes, especially if they occur on a non-serious topic, but to those who are disliking- are you disliking because you don't like the very concept of LGBT+ secretaries, or do you have specific complaints? Rather than disliking posts, you'd do best to come out and say what your problems are (assuming they're real problems), or leave the discussion alone.

18.02.2021 03:06:45

dipsydoll
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Atheista
18.02.2021 03:11:21
dipsydoll

bingo LOL... thats absolutely the kicker for me. not even proposing any kind of help or engagement with the discussion, just silently seething in a way that lets everyone know theyre mad about it. i lived with my mom for 21 years, if you want to make me uncomfortable with passive aggressive silence you gotta try harder

18.02.2021 03:11:21
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miesha
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Atheista
18.02.2021 03:17:59
miesha

I know who some of them are—it’s not hard to tell actually. They’re sending dislikes because they don’t want this to happen and are hoping it sways general opinion. They’re also LGBT-phobic, but I think that’s obvious anyway. 

18.02.2021 03:17:59
19, she/he pronouns ONLY. Barely on the site anymore so don’t bother. Please don’t interact with me if we aren’t friends, it makes me incredibly uncomfortable and anxious. 
miesha
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Atheista
18.02.2021 03:19:59
miesha

BTW that list looks amazing. I think I already have a few people in mind to fit, that’s if they want to even put up with this task. It’s not an easy one. 

18.02.2021 03:19:59
19, she/he pronouns ONLY. Barely on the site anymore so don’t bother. Please don’t interact with me if we aren’t friends, it makes me incredibly uncomfortable and anxious. 

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