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PlatinumLoreigh
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Freethinkerland
05.08.2018 14:10:48
PlatinumLoreigh

Sandi Lut wrote:
People (especially strangers) will always find something to crtitisize you about. But I discovered must of it is just envy. Also if someone has a problem with me for being just me (being genuine) then it mostly is THEIR problem. I just let others judge me, I don't care. I only care about the opinions of my friends and loved ones. They know me, they understand me and they take me for who and what I am.
As for being like a little kid in your interests, I am 45 and I will not ever let my inner child go. My inner child keeps me young, open minded, happy and playful. I'd rather be friends with someone who is childish from time to time then be friends with a boring adult who thinks he/she knows it all and believes the time for playing is over. I too don't like to be around many people, because most people judge you in a second without even trying to get to know you or understand you.

The problem is not you dear Platinum Loreigh, it's the majority of (boring and judgmental) people. Be yourself and don't be afraid to put yourself out there. I amdire your courage and you are a courageous woman for opening up on here. Don't let ignorant people pull you down :)

I don’t mind that it’s possibly envy, I mind that people act the way most people do most of the time! I’m so afraid to make friends, even if I try it won’t work. I can let people judge me about some things, but it still makes me lonely. For example; I live 0,15 mile from a supermarket, so I don’t care if I wear a sweatpants or no bra under my wide shirt. But maybe that’s because I’m going to get some lazy groceries instead of doing something important like making friends or going to a job interview. I’m glad you won’t let your inner child go and that’s what you should keep at all costs! I don’t like boring adults with all their judgmental nonsense. My inner child should be like yours, but I can’t reach her. I haven’t been able to reach her since I was 11 or 12. People broke her.

 

I really wish you were my friend though. I can use people around me with an attitude like yours!



05.08.2018 14:10:48
PlatinumLoreigh
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Freethinkerland
05.08.2018 14:12:59
PlatinumLoreigh

Hunni wrote:
Insecurity is a hard one, I'm constantly amazed by my friends who seem to be able to go in and out of any situation without every worrying that people didn't like them.  It's so easy to get stuck in your head about this stuff though.  If you're left with your thoughts long enough you can convince yourself of anything and blow all your worries way out of proportion.  Have you considered trying to visit a therapist?  It can be expensive but never underestimate the power of having someone to air with stuff to.  And as a bonus they're not connected to the rest of your life in any way so it doesn't matter what you say to them.

As for boardgames, try Facebook.  Near me there's a weekly board game night organised in via a Facebook group where people just turn up and group together for whichever game they want to play.
I've seen a therapist since I was young. At some points in life it worked, but not all of them. I'm having a new intake on August 28. Curious about what's going to happen this time.

05.08.2018 14:12:59

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