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122

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17.02.2020

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Channing

Level 42
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 55938
Reputation: 21273
Posts: 85

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20.02.2020 01:55:58
Channing

You have proved the very point I was trying to make. Thank you for that.

You also do not understand at all what I said and it is clear that you have no intention of trying to.

I am sorry to hear about your disorders, I can personally relate to both. I am not ignorant, I used the word "triggered" purposefully and correctly. I didn't think Anastazjanadia owed anyone an apology. But i now understand why she gave one. You were looking for a reaction and I gave it to you. Shame on me! I know better for next time not to bite the bait.

I will keep you in my prayers.

Juggalo Rights wrote:

@channing: first of all, don't use "triggered" as a synonym for offended. i have multiple anxiety disorders and post traumatic stress disorder. i experience triggers every single day. do not take the language of the mentally ill and butcher it.

second of all: i am not romani. i have absolutely no claims to that word, so i do not say it. the romani people were exterminated during the holocaust alongside jewish people and to this day face human rights abuses. they are not adequately represented by the united nations because they are an ethnic minority, not citizens of a country of their own, and thus in many countries in europe discrimination against romani people is not considered discrimination at all, since they are not a protected class. i called it the g-word because it has been used against romani people for CENTURIES, and its usage as a synonym for a free-spirited woman is literally rooted in racist stereotypes. here is a post by a romani woman explaining it, warning for themes of sexual assault and genocide.

if we're going to talk about tlc, we should also mention some of their other shows theyve had, such as toddlers in tiaras, or shows that featured sexual abusers, such as 19 kids and counting and here comes honey boo-boo. so i dont think that channel and their shows are the example of cultural sensitivity and progressiveness that you seem to want to use them as. plus, even in the context of that show, it is romani people using that word for THEMSELVES, which they are allowed to do.

marginalized people trying to have a say-so in the language that is used to describe them is not limiting your expression. i find it ironic that you're talking about people being too sensitive when me and anastazjanadia had a very short and simple interaction that was over in two replies and you're the one bringing it back up and writing paragraph upon paragraph about it. calm down. this is the wrong hill to die on.

20.02.2020 01:55:58

~~You can't argue with IGNORANCE~~

Channing

Level 42
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 55938
Reputation: 21273
Posts: 85

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20.02.2020 02:20:19
Channing

I find the word "faggot" in your signature to be extremely offensive. I know people in my community that were hospitalized, that were murdered by people that used the word "faggot" to bully them. I personally find it disrespectful and demeaning because of it's homophobic derogatory history. I believe that "faggot" is a HATE TERM.

This is something I would NOT have brought up if not for this conversation because how YOU express YOURSELF is YOUR choice. But why would I judge you for your choice of signature? I also took into consideration the context of your signature. You utilized alliteration with the word preceding "faggot" and made it look non-threatening. It was my mistake to assume you may mean it in a positive way in contrast to my own negative experience with it.

I apologize to everyone for taking up unnecessary space in this forum. I promise not to post anything further on the subject even if I am attacked or misunderstood. I do not find it productive to argue with ignorance.

Channing wrote:

You have proved the very point I was trying to make. Thank you for that.

You also do not understand at all what I said and it is clear that you have no intention of trying to.

I am sorry to hear about your disorders, I can personally relate to both. I am not ignorant, I used the word "triggered" purposefully and correctly. I didn't think Anastazjanadia owed anyone an apology. But i now understand why she gave one. You were looking for a reaction and I gave it to you. Shame on me! I know better for next time not to bite the bait.

I will keep you in my prayers.

Juggalo Rights wrote:
@channing: first of all, don't use "triggered" as a synonym for offended. i have multiple anxiety disorders and post traumatic stress disorder. i experience triggers every single day. do not take the language of the mentally ill and butcher it.

second of all: i am not romani. i have absolutely no claims to that word, so i do not say it. the romani people were exterminated during the holocaust alongside jewish people and to this day face human rights abuses. they are not adequately represented by the united nations because they are an ethnic minority, not citizens of a country of their own, and thus in many countries in europe discrimination against romani people is not considered discrimination at all, since they are not a protected class. i called it the g-word because it has been used against romani people for CENTURIES, and its usage as a synonym for a free-spirited woman is literally rooted in racist stereotypes. here is a post by a romani woman explaining it, warning for themes of sexual assault and genocide.

if we're going to talk about tlc, we should also mention some of their other shows theyve had, such as toddlers in tiaras, or shows that featured sexual abusers, such as 19 kids and counting and here comes honey boo-boo. so i dont think that channel and their shows are the example of cultural sensitivity and progressiveness that you seem to want to use them as. plus, even in the context of that show, it is romani people using that word for THEMSELVES, which they are allowed to do.

marginalized people trying to have a say-so in the language that is used to describe them is not limiting your expression. i find it ironic that you're talking about people being too sensitive when me and anastazjanadia had a very short and simple interaction that was over in two replies and you're the one bringing it back up and writing paragraph upon paragraph about it. calm down. this is the wrong hill to die on.

20.02.2020 02:20:19

~~You can't argue with IGNORANCE~~

Juggalo Rights

Level 30
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 20301
Reputation: 13654
Posts: 276

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20.02.2020 02:41:45
Juggalo Rights

my signature is flamboyant faggot because i'm a gay man and someone on this website referred to effeminate gay men as flamboyant faggots very recently. i can reclaim that word because it has been used to marginalize and subjugate me. i do not have the same claim to the g-word, and it would not be okay for a straight person to have my signature.

you either don't know what a trigger is or are trying deliberately to be offensive. you don't understand the historical context of the g slur and refuse to. stop trying to dictate the language marginalized people use and identify with. this was a very simple conversation that was resolved a while ago until you, for some reason, made it a point to bring it back up again using incredibly judgmental and invalidating language. thank you for putting an end to this instead of dragging it on, but to continue to do so would be unproductive not because i'm ignorant, but because it was OVER. anastazja was receptive to the fact that that word might hurt someone and/or make someone feel unsafe. YOU are the only one who had a problem here, with what? the usage of empathy? an attempt to try to avoid conflict or hurt feelings? like i said: this isn't the hill to die on.

20.02.2020 02:41:45

Ulvhild

Level 200
Status: Senator
Sex Appeal: 6511417
Reputation: 248798
Posts: 5272

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20.02.2020 05:26:44
Ulvhild

Channing and Juggalo Rights: Your discussion is a valid one, but please stop it in this thread now and get back to the topic, which is a theme for DQFC. :)

20.02.2020 05:26:44

- Life is a pretty cheesy game, but at least it has good graphics -

misogynist

Level 106
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 940717
Reputation: 67860
Posts: 1875

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20.02.2020 14:50:23
misogynist

damn this really bload up while your all here: www.yahoo

misogynist wrote:

how about crayons/coloring? from national coloring day (march 31st). outfits could be colorful, art inspired, monocolor, etc. i think its something everyone could get creative and have fun with, and its not as restrictive as some other specific holidays and themes :)

nah but honestly id really love to see this theme, also been thinking abt some more if yall could reply with thoughts on these
movie/tv/comic/etc characters from 2010 (inception, toy story 3, etc) 2000s hollywood (think iconic hannah montana, britney spears, etc)

20.02.2020 14:50:23

❤

MisFortune

Level 34
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 31045
Reputation: 14527
Posts: 561

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20.02.2020 16:14:13
MisFortune

I love you all!!!!! But....
We are playing a game where everybody has alternate identity, I cannot offend anyone because I don’t know anything about any of you. When I am angry I hate many many things including everything and everyone like me but only because I am angry, when I am happy I love everyone.
I cannot specifically hate any race, sex, religion etc. Sometimes I try to imagine to live like someone else but I cant because I only know how to handle the things that surrounds me but we all have tough things in life that we need to handle.
The only thing that I truly hate is or are bad people. Religion, politics and other things are one thing but try to reach to your heart and look at the person who is next to you and who is not like you...they are not different or weird. What I try to say is please take care of any good human being don’t mind the race, sex, religion and other things, good is such a rare adjective in this world. And one more thing, don’t label yourself or put yourself in any group. Don’t try to find a group to belong, it is much better to find Someone who can make you feel like you belong to this world.

I love you all, there is no need for arguing. Let's just have fun and make outfits, be silly and childish ❤️

20.02.2020 16:14:13

Nothing is as black as the sky is blue

AnayaPapaya

Level 29
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 18404
Reputation: 8590
Posts: 81

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20.02.2020 17:03:45
AnayaPapaya

How about something like Film Noir/Mafia/The Godfather type stuff?

or the four elements? (mermaid outfits excluded)

20.02.2020 17:03:45

Today is the tomorrow of yesterday, I'd say.

Mimbo Bimbo

Level 37
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 40660
Reputation: 21334
Posts: 999

2 0

20.02.2020 18:36:52
Mimbo Bimbo

Hershey wrote:

How about - 'When in Rome'
Romans have very interesting history and they celebrated festivals like Lupercalia, Festival of Janus in the most carnal and luxurious manner. So, why not dress up like the ancients and party without inhibitions this March?

this was something i was thinking about too -- plus the Ides of March (March 15)

20.02.2020 18:36:52

Red lip? NO. Earrings? NO. High heels? NO. Handbag? NO.

MisFortune

Level 34
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 31045
Reputation: 14527
Posts: 561

2 4

20.02.2020 18:42:25
MisFortune

Dislike me, I still love! Holograms are not important to me.

This can be new Drag contest “dislike”. Who gets most dislikes win.

20.02.2020 18:42:25

Nothing is as black as the sky is blue

honorscollege

Level 104
Status: Citizen
Sex Appeal: 885818
Reputation: 139922
Posts: 1759

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20.02.2020 21:13:09
honorscollege

Are we allowed to suggest more than one theme?

20.02.2020 21:13:09

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