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Just one really bad day...

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Created
26.06.2015
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Remi
Remi
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Secville
26.06.2015 21:11:55
Remi

tw rape/sexual assault & harassment.


So I have this ex-friend. I do not like this person. We used to be close and then she decided to get a life and stop speaking to me on the regular because her irl life was more important than our friendship. Which you know; okay, fine. If that's your priorities then you go enjoy your life and I will move on with mine. At one point she decided to come over to a house-warming party for me a while back, I wont go into details about that but during this her girlfriend sexually assaulted me while my ex-friend was in the room, she (ex-friend) told me to "just give up, she wont stop anyway.". When I talked about the issues I had with it the next day they decided to turn around and say "but you did -this- there's no difference between the two." (except you know, she consented and laughed when I did it and when she did that to me I asked her to stop repeatedly.) After that we stopped talking nearly altogether for about two years.

About a month ago she started talking to me again on skype. I felt uncomfortable but tried to be polite when talking to her. The next day I was filled with anxiety and depression thanks to bringing back the memories of what happened at the house-warming party and decided we should just end our interactions. So I deleted her off my skype and unfriended her and her girlfriend from facebook and decided that was that. Except today she decided to send me a message on Facebook asking me "Any particular reason to why I've been deleted off everything :/ "
After calming down from the anxiety attack I had from getting this message I replied, "We're not friends and seeing you around gives me anxiety. Please can you not send me messages anymore and not join the new miss bimbo (I mention this because she used to be on the old missbimbo and this place has been a safe space for me so far). I would really rather this be over for good. We used to be friends, and that was great and good while it lasted, but we really aren't anymore and I would like to move on. Please respect that."

I hoped that this would be the last of it but just to be safe, I blocked her on facebook and left. Cue to now I receive a text from her saying "I hope you realise that I cant reply to your facebook reply. Thats fine and all dandy with me, but I'd rather not leave it on a sour note seeing as last time we spoke we were fine :/" a little while later she texted me again saying "Btw your new hair looks freaking awesome.".

I started to freak out a bit and I left the message not sure what to do or if I should reply, so I didn't and put my phone away. Lo and behold later on facebook I receive a message from her girlfriend (yes that one) saying, "
Hi -name-, wanted me tell you your hair is awsome";

I know its stupid to get so upset over something like that, its not what they said but its the fact that they literally would not leave me alone and continued to send me messages long after I asked them to leave me alone. I'm starting to get the picture that they are going to harass me no matter how many times I block them and I'm worried that they are going to show up on here now too. I really don't want to seem like I'm overreacting but I cant with them being anywhere near me after what happened. I'm not really sure if there's anything I can do about this... Its been a really bad day.

26.06.2015 21:11:55
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HeavenLeighBimbo
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Freethinkerland
27.06.2015 01:28:11
HeavenLeighBimbo

I read this post over six times.....
  I'm still not sure how to reply to it, because I was once a virgin, and a teenage human with a heart....

  My first impression is how I met the first girl I had sex with as a girl myself.
Foolish because there was 'her' best friend  that desired me too.    I found her unattractive, but it set up a disaster as far as love go's. 
  We would have sex,  and the stories would be shared with friends.  (FACEBOOK?)  The more we played together,  the more the 'friend desired me'.  When my girlfriend and I broke up, in peace,  It wasn't a single day till I was tied up, in the bed of a pick-up truck,  and raped.  That is a strong word,  and not really justified in my situation.  I acted a part in a PLAY, but I allowed my body to be used because my heart was crushed.  I didn't do anything as far as revenge goes.....    I let myself be hurt,  and I gained nothing from the experience but a new appreciation for self respect. 
My body became MINE that day.

  Remi,  you will do fine......  Your a man in training,  and  you already have something most men will never have.
   A HEART.

  I'm sorry if I didn't say what you wanted to hear........
  But taking my shoes off, and wearing yours, is how I seek to understand my own emotions.
  Take this reply as you see fit.
   I would dream about you, and have...........because believe it or not,  I find you VERY sexy too.  I will play this, at the skate park, and I'll do it in panties just to be who I am, TOO

  The sound truck needs some MOVIN' on.


My bad.....
 I see the  value in YOU and you make me weep with pleasure for hardly any reasons at all.
  Where the hell is my time-portal?
  It's a really bad day when you cant fix the past.
 so what the Hell  I would bed you in an instant.
   My bad. (or her's)

27.06.2015 01:28:11
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Mandi
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Antitheocra
27.06.2015 03:42:09
Mandi

i dont think you're over-reacting at all. you gotta do what's best for you and if they make you uncomfortable and are disrespectful you don't have to put up with that.

27.06.2015 03:42:09
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Sekae
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Atheista
28.06.2015 19:33:07
Sekae

HeavenLeighBimbo wrote:
because believe it or not,  I find you VERY sexy too.  I will play this, at the skate park, and I'll do it in panties just to be who I am, TOO
so what the Hell  I would bed you in an instant.  



I don't see how this is contributing to this thread.





28.06.2015 19:33:07
Sekae
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Atheista
28.06.2015 19:37:22
Sekae

remi, I hope you're better by now. You should cut all ties from her and use the call/text rejection.

28.06.2015 19:37:22
Remi
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Secville
28.06.2015 22:39:47
Remi

Thanks guys! I was worried that i sounded like i was just being childish or something for just wanting them to leave me alone. its good to know thats not the case.
@sekae I didn't even know you could! gonna look up how to with my phone.

28.06.2015 22:39:47
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Bebe92583
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Antitheocra
29.06.2015 20:29:11
Bebe92583

Remi wrote:
Thanks guys! I was worried that i sounded like i was just being childish or something for just wanting them to leave me alone. its good to know thats not the case.
@sekae I didn't even know you could! gonna look up how to with my phone.
Sekae is right,block her using call/text rejection and anytime someone makes you feel that uncomfortable its time to trust your instinct.the instincts are there for a reason. a person I was recently talking to on Facebook started making me really uncomfortable with constant messages etc......and sending messages to family members looking for me and attempting to friend anyone who knew me.I finally blocked him on chat ,signed out of messenger and generally ignored him. apparently Facebook must have got complaints about this person because the delete every message the person sent and only left my limited replies with the message from facebook that this person either needed to go through "verification or was deemed abusive" this is the exact message from Facebook."This message has been temporarily removed because the sender's account requires verification, or it was identified as abusive" so if they continue on facebook it is possible to report them.They're acting like  stalkers in my opinion. I hope you are feeling a bit better now.

29.06.2015 20:29:11
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Freethinkerland
25.08.2017 20:46:28
CinnamonAndSunshine

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25.08.2017 20:46:28
I absolutely love this place and you guys. You all make me feel like i really belong ❤️
I try not to get involved with the politics of this game, I just want to have fun and get to know people :)
CinnamonAndSunshine
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Freethinkerland
25.08.2017 20:47:01
CinnamonAndSunshine

Remi.....i know this post is old but i hope your ok now.

25.08.2017 20:47:01
I absolutely love this place and you guys. You all make me feel like i really belong ❤️
I try not to get involved with the politics of this game, I just want to have fun and get to know people :)

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